Do you give yourself credit for the things you are naturally good at? When a skill or trait comes naturally, it's easy for us to assume that everyone has it because the effort is almost invisible to us. Then we minimize or discount the value that those abilities bring to our work, homes and relationships while feeling inadequate in comparison to others who may do or be proficient in other aspects.Think about some activity or behavior that you do well instinctively. It could be anything; spelling, drawing, dancing, telling jokes, getting along with people, or anything else that feels easy and comfortable for you to do. Maybe ask someone whose opinion you trust to confirm that this is something you are good at, for their perspective on the value that this brings, and also to confirm that not everyone has the talent to perform this as effortlessly as you.
In spite of what modern education and mainstream marketing would have us believe, we are all incredibly different in our talents, skills, interests and perspectives. I have come to believe that our greatest gift and potential as human beings lies in understanding and accepting our own individual and unique characteristics and finding the place(s) in life where those attributes can be most appreciated.
On another note, I have accepted the position as President of EWI (Executive Women International http://www.executivewomen.org/) Lethbridge and have started a blog featuring updates and member information from our group.
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